Don’t CHANGE yourself, change your PeRsPeCtIvE!


It has become way to easy for people to believe that if they change who they are that they will be happier. Everyone wants to be thinner, prettier, have her nose, or his muscles, but the truth of the matter is, even if you got them it would never be enough. People are never fully happy with their looks. It is extremely sad because everyone is unique and we often times forget about all the wonderful things we already posses. Everyone has something that makes them who they are, we all need to learn to love and accept ourselves for who we are before we can ever think someone else is going to respect us. You must give yourself respect first.

Think about what makes you, you. Why do you have friends, what do they love about you? Everyone’s unique qualities set him or her apart from the crowd. If you embrace and understand these qualities you can better express yourself to the outside world. Think really hard about what you like about yourself. Then use that to help brand you! Don’t dwell on your flaws because guess what? EVERYONE HAS FLAWS! So why would you want to classify yourself based on what you don’t have instead of what you do have? No one likes hearing what you don’t like about yourself anyway (besides plastic surgeons, who make their money based on your unhappiness),  and the more positive you are about yourself, the more confident you come off. Stop wasting energy focusing on what you hate and redirect your attention on what you have and love.


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